In the car the recruit keeps his headphones on. They are a pair of large white Beats by Dre and they are made starker by his dark dreadlocks. I ask him what other schools he is considering, but his music is so loud he can't hear me. The driver, University of Louisiana at Lafayette assistant coach Gus Hauser, taps him on the arm.
"He wants to know where you're looking?" he says.
The recruit pulls the left earphone back and tinny, bass-heavy music fills the car. He lists a handful of schools other than Louisiana-Lafayette (ULL) and then returns the earphone. Because he does this, I ask him another question, and he repeats the move once more.
Gus Hauser (Courtesy of Louisiana-Lafayette)
I'm a university professor and I'm used to dealing with college students, but I've not dealt with Division 1 athletes since grad school. I'm bugged that Headphones doesn't seem to get it. He's in the car with an assistant coach from a school that has flown him in for an official visit. He isn't taking the time to ask any questions about the program. He isn't making any effort to impress the coach. Earlier, while the team practiced, he sat on the sidelines with the Beats cradled around his neck. I don't know anything about him other than what I can see, and from my vantage point he's blowing a huge opportunity to score points with the staff.
At first, I wonder if this is because he feels entitled, as if all the power is in his hands. Then I think he is like far too many players in the 351 D1 men's basketball programs: a young man from a tough situation with few authority figures. No one has told him recruiting visits are like job interviews. Or maybe he's just nervous and shy riding in the car with two guys in the early years of middle age and with whom he doesn't have much in common and his music is more comforting and easy. But whatever is going on with him, whether intentional or not, he seems rude and clueless to the situation.
This kills me. He can't see the big picture here — a free education to do something he would be doing anyway — and play the long game. So I keep asking him questions, a passive-aggressive way of getting him to think about taking off his headphones, which he finally does because I won't let him listen to his music.
Gus laughs at my questions and comments. He tells the recruit I'm a professor and that I attended Florida State. This makes the kid perk up. He's from Florida and we talk about Tallahassee some. I soften my attitude and offer some unsolicited advice about picking a college. "You need to find a place where you get the green light every trip. Someplace you can pump it up 20 times a game. Ask Coach Marlin about that tomorrow morning." This makes the kid laugh.
Gus and I are old friends, former high school teammates in football and basketball. He's thicker in the chest than he was in high school and more filled out, but he essentially looks the same except for his thinning, sandy brown hair that's putting up a good fight. He lets me talk to the kid as much as I do because he trusts I won't do anything to jeopardize his recruitment by reading the situation wrong. Also, I get the sense my presence breaks up the routine nature of these visits and soon the kid is talking to both of us rather than being shut off in his world.
As we near the hotel, Gus tells him one of the players on the team has his host money and all his food tonight will be covered. A ticket for the football game is waiting on him at will call and if he needs anything he should phone or text, but otherwise he and Head Coach Bob Marlin will see him for breakfast, where they can talk about the program and then they'll both take him to the airport and see him off.
This is not what I expected to see during an on-campus visit when I agreed to come down and observe Gus at work. I expected more deference, more respect. At the hotel, we both shake the kid's hand and watch him walk inside.
"I like that he kept the headphones on," I say, once he's out of earshot.
"No doubt," Gus says, smiling. He's amused by how much I peppered the kid because I was irked.
"How common is that?" I ask. "A guy just gets in the car and turns his music on and ignores you."
"It happens. Not a lot, but it can happen. I might tell his coach when he calls to ask how the visit went that (the recruit) might want to leave the headphones off next time."


Louisville coach Rick Pitino in 2003, the year Gus Hauser began as a graduate assistant. (Getty Images)
Gus Hauser (bottom left) during New Mexico State's 2007 NCAA Tournament game against Texas. Head coach Reggie Theus departed for the NBA after the season. (Getty Images)
Louisiana-Lafayette head coach Bob Marlin. (Getty Images)
Elfrid Payton, who Gus Hauser coached at Louisiana-Lafayette, was drafted 10th overall by the Magic in 2014. (Getty Images)











